5th Chapter - Jealous / Cemburu

English Version

Have you ever feel jealous with your friends, family or someone??? Did you always wondering and asking yourself why you cannot be just like that person or have you ever feel unsatisfied with the advantages of someone??? Have all these words ever came across your mind sometimes??? 

' Why I can't have a good grades like her / him ? '

' Why I'm not born in rich family like her / him? '

' Why I'm not as pretty / good looking just like her / him ? '

n lot more of 'Whys' that playing in your mind....you know what??? It's a sign you are jealous... Jealous is actually a normal feeling that every human will feel...as a normal human being ,we always feel unsatisfied with our own selves... well, it's normal... 

Do You Know Why We Feel Jealous???

1. We feel we are failure

2.We feel we are not as good as others

3.Lack of self-confidence

4.Lack of self motivation

How to Overcome This Feeling???

1.Try to think positively

2.Think about the advantages that you have 

3.Build your self-confidence and self-motivations

4.Try to talk to someone about your feeling

5.Try to be grateful in what do you have

In conclusion...to feel jealous of someone is not a mistake because it's happen to everyone that always want to look perfect...we as a human are not perfectionist but we always try to be the perfect one...It's a good thing if the feeling give advantages to us and do not harm anyone because people nowadays are willing to do anything just to get what they want....Try to be grateful because God made us with the weakness and  strengths of our own..everyone are unique in their own way.... So, love yourselves ya folks!!! :)

Malay Version

Pernah tak korg rasa cemburu dgn kwn2 korg, family korg atau sesape je lah...pernah tak korg tanye diri korg sendiri kenapa la korg x boleh jadi mcm si tuttt or pernah x korg rs x puas hati dgn kelebihan yg org lain ada???n pernah x benda2 ni bermain2 kat fikiran korg???

' Kenapa la result aku tak gempak mcm die ? '

' Kenapa la aku tak kaya mcm die ? '

' Kenapa la aku tak cantik / hensem mcm die tu ? '

n byk lg la ' kenapa ' la... korg sedar tak yg korg tgh cemburu??? cemburu ni sbnrnye perasaan biasa yg semua org akan rasa...sbg manusia biasa, kita slalu tak puas hati dgn diri kita ni...well, biasa la tu...

Kenapa Kita Cemburu???

1.Kita merasakan diri kita seorg yg gagal

2.Kita rasa rendah diri

3.Kurang keyakinan diri

4.Kurang motivasi dalam diri

Macam Mana Nak Atasi Cemburu???

1.Cuba fikir positif

2.Fikir tentang kelebihan yg korg ada

3.Bina keyakinan diri n motivasi diri ( mcm baca buku motivasi ke, tgk2 blog yg bermotivasi ke , selalu baca kata2 semangat scr x lgsg kita pun akan jadi bersmgt jugak! )

4.Cuba cari kwn utk berckp ttg mslh korg

5.Cuba bersyukur dengan apa yg korg ada

Konklusinya, rasa cemburu kat seseorg bkn la satu keslhn sbb prkr ni berlaku kat semua org yg nak nmpk sempurna...kita sbg manusia biasa bukan la seorg yg sempurna tp kita slalu berusaha utk jd sempurna...Cemburu ni bagus klu die bg kebaikan kat diri kita n x memudaratkn org lain...sbb biasa la...org zaman skrg ni sanggup buat ape je utk dptkn ape yg diorg nk...ade kes sampai bunuh-membunuh lak..eeeiii, seramnye...jgn la smpi mcm tu ye...Cuba bersyukur dgn apa yg Tuhan beri kat korg sbb Tuhan jadikan kita dgn klbhn n kekurgn masing2...Semua org berbeza and unik dgn cara masing2...So, sayangilah diri anda k!!!^^

---

Thx Dear readers :)

---