Words From The Heart: Thankful

Wednesday, February 1, 2012

13th Chapter - Be grateful / Bersyukurlah...

English Version

Olla peeps !!! ( waving my hands ) How are you today??? It's February already.... Time flies very fast without we realizing , huh?? So, people don't waste your time on something doesn't pay you back because we can't reverse the time that we have wasted.... Ok la....back to topic...As you all can see, the topic for my entry today is ' Be grateful ' ... Why suddenly I choose this topic ya??? Ermm... Well, as a human we are not perfect.... even though our life sometimes seems look almost perfect, but we can't help our-self from complaining about the imperfection....

But, what I'm trying is...we should be thankful no matter what happen around us...

God have give us so many changes and opportunity in our life... The thing is, how you use the chances given...

Don't let little things get you down. You've got so many big reasons to look up to God and say thank you...From Him we came, and finally to Him do we return one day...We can't run from that fact... So, try to be grateful in what do you had in your life because God always gives you the best...

This note I made myself as a reminder for myself..

Dear self,
Please don't be too greedy and try to be grateful...
Allah have gave you a wonderful life...
Your life almost perfect...
You have a great parents that can always motivate you in order to be a successful person...
You have a loving brother and sisters that take a good care of you...
You have a very good grandma that loves you with all her heart and soul...
You have a supportive friends that always stands by your side no matter what...
And you have someone special that always brightened your day every day...
Remember...appreciate all what you've got...
Do not ask for more...
Don't worry....Allah knows what's the best for you....
Even you have lost something valuable in your life, He will replace it with something better...He is your Lord and you are His slave...
Everything that comes and goes are from Him...
He's the one who planned and created your life, so just listened to his order and be grateful in whatever you had...
Only one word you can say.... ALHAMDULLILAH... :)

Malay Version

Olla semua !!! ( lambai2 tangan ) korg mcm mn hari ni??? Dah bulan Februari dah pun kan... Cepat betul ms ni berlalu kan??? So, korg jgn la nak buang2 masa dah buat bnd2 yg x mendtgkn faedah sbb kita x blh undru blk ms yg dh terbuang tu...Ok la...kembali kpd topik...mcm yg korg sume dh tau, topik utk entry aku kali ni adalah ' Bersyukurlah ' kenapa tiba2 aku nak pilih topik ni ekk??? Ermmm... Well, sbg manusia kita ni bukan lah sempurna...walaupun kdg2 hidup kita ni nmpk mcm hampir sempurna tp kita x blh nk halang diri drpd merungut ttg sgl ketidak sempurnaan idup kita ni...

Tapi, apa yg aku cuba nak ckpkan sini...kita kena la bersyukur tak kira apa yg berlaku kat sekeliling kita... Allah dah bagi byk sgt peluang dlm hidup kita...soalnye, mcm mn kita guna peluang tu je...

Jgn biar bnd kecik buat korg rs kecewa sgt la...korg ade byk lg sbb utk bersyukur pada Allah...Kita dtg dr Dia dan kepada-Nya jugalah akan kita kembali satu hari nant...tak boleh nak lari dari kenyataan tu dah...So, cuba jadi bersyukur dgn apa yg korg ada la sbb Allah slalu kasi kita yg terbaik...

Note ni aku buat sendiri sbg peringatan utk diri aku,

Wahai Diriku,
Tolong jangan jadi terlalu tamak dan cuba bersyukur...
Allah dah bagi hidup yang cukup indah kepada kau...
Hidup kau dah hampir sempurna...
Kau ada ibu bapa yang sangat mengagumkan yang boleh beri kau motivasi selalu dalam usaha untuk kau menjadi seorang yang berjaya,
Kau ada abang dan kakak yang sangat penyayang ynag jaga kau dengan baik...
Kau ada nenek yang sangat baik yang menyayangi diri kau dengan sepenuh hatinya...
Kau ada sokongan daripada kawan-kawan yang sentiasa berada di sisi kau tak kira apa pun...
Dan kau ada seseorang yang istimewa yang selalu buat hidup kau gembira setiap hari...
Ingatlah...hargai semua yang kau ada...
Jangan meminta lebih...
Jangan risau...Allah tau apa yang terbaik untuk kau...
Walaupun kau dah hilang sesuatu yang sangat berharga dalam hidup kau, Allah akan gantikannya dengan sesuatu yang lebih baik...Allah adalah Tuhanmu dan Kau adalah hambaNya...
Semua yang datang dan pergi adalah daripadaNya...
Allah yang merancang dan mencipta hidup kau, jadi patuh la pada arahanNya dan bersyukurlah apa yang kau miliki...
Satu perkara yang boleh kau katakan....ALHAMDULILLAH... :)

Thx Dear readers :)

Thursday, January 12, 2012

5th Chapter - Jealous / Cemburu

English Version

Have you ever feel jealous with your friends, family or someone??? Did you always wondering and asking yourself why you cannot be just like that person or have you ever feel unsatisfied with the advantages of someone??? Have all these words ever came across your mind sometimes???

' Why I can't have a good grades like her / him ? '

' Why I'm not born in rich family like her / him? '

' Why I'm not as pretty / good looking just like her / him ? '

n lot more of 'Whys' that playing in your mind....you know what??? It's a sign you are jealous... Jealous is actually a normal feeling that every human will feel...as a normal human being ,we always feel unsatisfied with our own selves... well, it's normal...

Do You Know Why We Feel Jealous???

1. We feel we are failure

2.We feel we are not as good as others

3.Lack of self-confidence

4.Lack of self motivation

How to Overcome This Feeling???

1.Try to think positively

2.Think about the advantages that you have

3.Build your self-confidence and self-motivations

4.Try to talk to someone about your feeling

5.Try to be grateful in what do you have

In conclusion...to feel jealous of someone is not a mistake because it's happen to everyone that always want to look perfect...we as a human are not perfectionist but we always try to be the perfect one...It's a good thing if the feeling give advantages to us and do not harm anyone because people nowadays are willing to do anything just to get what they want....Try to be grateful because God made us with the weakness and strengths of our own..everyone are unique in their own way.... So, love yourselves ya folks!!! :)

Malay Version

Pernah tak korg rasa cemburu dgn kwn2 korg, family korg atau sesape je lah...pernah tak korg tanye diri korg sendiri kenapa la korg x boleh jadi mcm si tuttt or pernah x korg rs x puas hati dgn kelebihan yg org lain ada???n pernah x benda2 ni bermain2 kat fikiran korg???

' Kenapa la result aku tak gempak mcm die ? '

' Kenapa la aku tak kaya mcm die ? '

' Kenapa la aku tak cantik / hensem mcm die tu ? '

n byk lg la ' kenapa ' la... korg sedar tak yg korg tgh cemburu??? cemburu ni sbnrnye perasaan biasa yg semua org akan rasa...sbg manusia biasa, kita slalu tak puas hati dgn diri kita ni...well, biasa la tu...

Kenapa Kita Cemburu???

1.Kita merasakan diri kita seorg yg gagal

2.Kita rasa rendah diri

3.Kurang keyakinan diri

4.Kurang motivasi dalam diri

Macam Mana Nak Atasi Cemburu???

1.Cuba fikir positif

2.Fikir tentang kelebihan yg korg ada

3.Bina keyakinan diri n motivasi diri ( mcm baca buku motivasi ke, tgk2 blog yg bermotivasi ke , selalu baca kata2 semangat scr x lgsg kita pun akan jadi bersmgt jugak! )

4.Cuba cari kwn utk berckp ttg mslh korg

5.Cuba bersyukur dengan apa yg korg ada

Konklusinya, rasa cemburu kat seseorg bkn la satu keslhn sbb prkr ni berlaku kat semua org yg nak nmpk sempurna...kita sbg manusia biasa bukan la seorg yg sempurna tp kita slalu berusaha utk jd sempurna...Cemburu ni bagus klu die bg kebaikan kat diri kita n x memudaratkn org lain...sbb biasa la...org zaman skrg ni sanggup buat ape je utk dptkn ape yg diorg nk...ade kes sampai bunuh-membunuh lak..eeeiii, seramnye...jgn la smpi mcm tu ye...Cuba bersyukur dgn apa yg Tuhan beri kat korg sbb Tuhan jadikan kita dgn klbhn n kekurgn masing2...Semua org berbeza and unik dgn cara masing2...So, sayangilah diri anda k!!!^^